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John, 65 y.o., United States, Oklahoma City

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First name: John

Age: 65

Location: United States, Oklahoma City

Zodiac Sign: Taurus

Weight: 120kg

Height: 188cm

Eye colour: Grey

Hair colour: Salt and pepper gray

Body type: A few extra pounds

On your body there are: Scars

Smoking Frequency: Often

Drinking Frequency: Occasionally(Socially)

Sleeping habits: Does not matter

With information:

Marital status: Widow(widower)

Do you agree to move ?:

I agree to stay in my city

Your priorities in life:

Family, long-term relationship
Welfare/well-being
Balance of mind
Artistic self-expression

In my property: A house/ a cottage, A car

Where do you live?: Separate house/ cottage

What do you think about travelling and meeting expenses: I am not ready to pay

Education: Graduate degree

What religion do you practice?: Protestant

I want to disclose information about disability that I have: diabetes type-2, Under control with oral medication and diet

Preferences

Age: 38 - 60

Country: Western Europe, Eastern Europe, North America

Weight: 49.94 - 74.91 kg

Height: 157 - 183 cm

Eye colour: Any

Hair colour: Any

Is it okay if they have children?: Yes

Body type: Average, Muscular, A few extra pounds, Athletic

Smokes: Occasionally

Drinks: Occasionally(Socially)

Ethnic Preference: Asian, White/Caucasian

How would you describe yourself?: Classic gentleman who dresses up regularly even though I don’t have to, knowledgeable in a wide range of topics (3 degrees – Bachelor of Arts (double major) Religion and History, Bachelor of Science - Psychology and Masters of Social Work, Almost Masters of Education in Counseling Psychology – 6 hours short). I have taught undergraduate and graduate level social work at two universities and enjoy reading and writing. If I could I would quit my job and become a full time writer today (but ahhh when I retire – 5 years and counting). I’ve had a video blog on traditional wet shaving on YouTube for several years…it was my hobby but because of life struggles I haven’t posted in over a year. I’m the Mad Scientist of Wet Shaving. Also have a blog on emotional trauma and wet shaving on squarespace called vintagerazorcollection. I was once a newspaper journalist and photographer. I’m essentially an old soul who is out of place in the modern world. I’m usually quiet, a deep thinker (who over analyzes), but level headed and insightful. I quietly watch and listen but when I do talk people listen or I insert in the conversation a cutting dry humor one line comment that puts everyone on the floor laughing. At first many people view me as stand-offish, mysterious, and unapproachable...but give me a few minutes and usually people warm up to me quickly once they know the real me. Past life traumas have cause me to be somewhat guarded, but I have learned from them (twin brother died at birth, father died when I was 8 yrs. old, widowed twice (been widowed for past 5 years). Our adopted son - now 19, out of the home and estranged from me due to his meth and heroin abuse and stealing - nearly destroyed me emotionally and financially after my second wife died. Frankly the past few years has been a living hell. Struggling to try and sell my 3600 ft house because I can’t afford it anymore and I don’t need all that space living alone. I’m currently writing a book about trauma...I refer to it as having “Trauma Bombs” - those often common large and small life events that everyone has but their explosion and damage often leaves toxic emotional fallout radiation for months and years later. I’m here seeking a classy beautiful woman (inside and out) who likes to look good in public, dress well, is intelligent, outgoing, vivacious, romantic, affectionate and sexy. A life partner. I know many women have been traumatized by men in their past - emotionally and physically...they too have become wary and guarded in relationships. That doesn’t scare me away...I am patient and can wait for the inner passions of a woman to emerge once trust has been restored. You must be willing to touch and be touched, talk and listen. It is crucial for bonding and true intimacy and love to grow. I will know you are true, not fake and sincere if you reference something I have written here when messaging or texting me.
How would you describe your ideal partner?: Beautiful and passionate woman who is a partner in everything.
If you knew the world was going to end in 30 days, what would you do?: Spend time with those I love.
If you had 10 million dollars to spare, what would you do with it?: Start a business, travel, give to those less fortunate.
How often, and from whom do you ask advice?: Occasionally from my brother or sister but usually just from myself and God.
What quality do you value most in the people of your gender?: The ability to show tender emotions and love.
What quality do you value most in the opposite sex?: The ability to be open to love and not live in past trauma
What is a recent prominent event in your life, and how has it affected you?: The death of my wife 5 years ago brought about a sequence of traumatic events (long story). I have tried my best to deal with my past trauma and exorcise it's effects from my life.
What is the best advice that you give to your children?: Don't listen to the mass media or your peers. Be strong and think for yourself. Test things for the real truth and not what tickles the ears.
What has produced the biggest impression (shock) on you?: How everyday little traumatic events and over time accumulate and totally control how you interact with your world.
The last books that you read?: The Adventures of Sherlock Holmes.
What are your goals now?: To sell my house and prepare for retirement so I can finally travel and write.
Whom do you admire?: Gordon Ramsay, Tom Selleck, Ronald Reagan, and Donald Trump.
Do you have a lot of friends?: Very few
What qualities do you dislike most in those of your gender?: Violent behavior and out of control emotions
What qualities do you dislike most in the people of the opposite sex?: Inability to trust and accept love. Being selfish, greedy and feminism.
What would you like to change in yourself?: Not so much of a perfectionist about myself...not others,
What are your weaknesses?: Criticizing myself too much.
What are your strengths ?: A wide knowledge base that allows me to see the big picture, a good listener, compassionate, forgiving, level headed.
How do friends view you?: Smart, funny, trustworthy and loyal
How do acquaintances view you?: Sometimes unapproachable because until you get to know me my introversion and shyness is dominant.
What are your favourite games?: Any card games, particularly poker.
Who are your favourite writers and poets?: Arthur Conan Doyle, Mark Twain, Edgar Allen Poe, Keats, Carl Sandburg
What kinds of music do you like?: Classical, Chamber Music, Big Band, Jazz, Blues, Classic Rock, Country....many kinds...but not Rap.
What is your favourite food?: Like most things except Italian. Occasionally it's OK but pasta not my favorite food.
What are your favourite films?: Casablanca, The Patriot, Hunger Games, Harry Potter, black and white movies, Star Trek, Star Wars, Forbidden Planet, Anything set in Victorian or Edwardian Era.
What is your favourite fairy-tale?: Beauty and the Beast
What is your favourite activity or hobby?: Writing and reading...learning new things.
What is your dream job?: Writer and lecturer...motivational speaking.
Tell us about your dream partner.: Someone who loves me with all of her heart and who I too can love completely with all of my heart. My soulmate and life partner. She is beautiful and smart. Courageous but also unafraid to be weak (with me). A passionate lover who is playful and open. Nothing hidden. Trusting and Trustworthy. Loyal and not jealous.
Where do you want to live?: In a quiet country setting away from a lot of people but also close enough to the city that when I want to I can experience being in the hustle and bustle.

Do I enjoy gardening?: Don't mind helping
Do I enjoy grocery shopping?: Do it rather than starve
Do I enjoy other types of Shopping?: I don't mind it
Do I enjoy cooking?: I like cooking
How often do I like to go out?: Twice a week
Do I enjoy dining out?: I love it
When it comes to TV: Change to an information channel
When it comes to money: I've been known to blow some cash but I know my limits
Describe myself at a party as a: That depends. Am I invited?
Keep my space: Gets cleaned when it gets critical
Ideally I would like to live in a: cabin in the mountain
Preference for pets: Don't have but like Cats, Dogs, Fish, Birds

What type of television programs do I enjoy watching most?: Sci-fi, Nature/wildlife, Mystery/thriller, Films, Educational, Drama, Documentary, Comedy, Action/Adventure
I enjoy spending free time: Curling up with a good book
Activities that I enjoy: Fishing, Hunting, Walking
Sports that I enjoy watching and/or playing: Baseball, Basketball, Bowling, Golf
Forms of entertainment that I enjoy: Casino/gambling, Concerts, Darts, Fine dining, Movies, Museum/arts, Classical music, Country music, Jazz music, Rock music, Reading
Other hobbies or interests: Antiques, cats, creative writing, dogs, philosophy/spiritual, travelling